Jacob Burl Sain
May 16, 1932 - February 18, 2025
Jacob Burl Sain passed away on February 18, 2025, at College Pines Health and Rehabilitation Facility surrounded by his loved ones. He was born on May 16, 1932, in Toluca, NC to the late Bert and Tommie Sain. He is survived by his beloved wife, Thelma Shuping Sain and his children; their spouses; grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Daughter, Kim Harris of Marietta, GA, her husband, Randy and grandchildren Mason Harris, his wife Lauren and great-grandchildren Monroe, Hadley and Chiara, Emily Watson and her husband Michael and great-grandson, Harris; daughter, Kathryn Sain Chan of Charlotte and her husband Andy Chan; Son, Tommy Sain of Morganton, his wife, Renae and grandchildren, Dr. Dillon Sain, his wife Dedra and great-grandchildren Kenna and Thomas, Meredith Brand and her husband Dan, Dr. Jared Sain and his wife Maria; daughter, Michelle Langdon of Raleigh and her husband Mark and grandson Colt; daughter, Donelle Reynolds of Wake Forest and her husband Bruce and grandchildren Mckenzie and Cameron; sister, Darcus Tillman of Bellwood, sister-in-laws Brenda Kay Shuping of Charlotte and Carlean Sain of West Lincoln. He was preceded in death by his sister, Norma Jane Brendle, and brothers Thomas Warren Sain and Don Sain.
Burl's life began on a family farm in Lincoln County. Though he did not make his home there, he would forever lead a life of faith, heart, humor, hustle and a twinkle of mischief that first took root in the country roads and cotton fields of his childhood. Burl was wise of thought, deed, and counsel well beyond his years of formal education. After his school days ended as most did then to work on the family farm, Burl joined the Army where he served for three years in Germany. After the Army and a stint of truck driving, Burl decided to go to barber school. While he loved the open road and would later enjoy riding his horses and motorcycles for hours, he wanted a family and knew that the road was no place for the Dad he wanted to be. In 1954, Burl began work at Sain's Barber Shop when a pretty bank worker making a daily deposit caught his eye. Burl and Thelma married in November 1955, and celebrated their 69th wedding anniversary this past year. They were deeply and truly devoted to each other from the very beginning to Burl's last days.
Burl's first dates with Thelma included an Oak Hill basketball game and going to Burkemont Baptist church where Dr. Reverend Johnny Tiller served as Pastor. Pastor Tiller led Burl to salvation and a life dedicated to his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. These three pillars- his work, faith and family- were the rocks upon which he built his life. Burl worked as a barber in Burke and Lincoln County for over 60 years in downtown Â鶹´«Ã½ and "in the country" at a shop beside his childhood home where his Mom fixed him dinner served at noon and supper in the evening hour. His lay ministry began in 1973 at Pleasant Hill Baptist Church. He would go on to serve for decades as an interim pastor in over 19 churches. It was his honor, divine calling, and privilege to serve these dear congregations and lead souls to Christ. Burl reared five kids with an eye to give us the tools – a work ethic and education- to make our dreams come true for whatever horizon that may be and to have a dollar in our pocket come what may. Burl was fiercely strong of character, purpose and will in all corners of his life. Whether it was haltering a 700lb steer that had never been roped before, leading an unruly horse into a trailer, loading a biting hog, horse-trading over a fence, or dealing with an ornery child, there was never a doubt who was going to win the battle. His legendary tenacity was matched by his sense of fun and mischief. Whether it was working in the garden, cutting wood, going to the county fair, riding motorcycles and horses, horseplaying with water fights, playing checkers, riding the waves at the beach, or eating ice cream and candy, Dad made everything fun and you wanted to be wherever he was…something was bound to happen and you didn't want to miss it.
In his later years of decline, as we bent down to hug him and he labored to stand for a goodbye hug over our objection, he would often say "No, I am going to stand up and do it right." And stand up he did; whether it was in the pulpit as your minister, behind his chair, as a barber giving a cut or counsel, or as head of a Christ-centered household, he stood up and did it right with honor, humor and heart dedicated to his faith and family. He will be dearly and deeply missed by many but cherished, remembered, and honored for all our days.
The family extends their deepest gratitude to Burl's caregivers at College Pines, to Patsy Huffman for her tender loving care in his final years of decline until the day of his passing, and to Douglas St. John for his steadfast aid in all manner of tasks.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Burkemont Baptist Church.
The visitation will be held on March 1, 2025 from 12 to 2 p.m. and funeral service at 2 p.m., both at Burkemont Baptist Church. A mass choir will gather to sing Amazing Grace at the funeral. Members from former churches Burl has served are invited to participate. Please arrive fifteen minutes prior to service.
Sossoman Funeral Home and Crematory Center is assisting the family with the arrangements.
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